It’s 4:00 in the morning and I’ve been stirring in my bed, unable to drift back into sleep and unable to think about anything other than a snippet of a dream that I was able to snatch during a moment of sleep I managed to get and which is why I’m sitting here in the dark, squinting into the brightness of a computer monitor, just so I can get it out of my head and onto ‘paper.’
The dream of which I speak is one where I started off fighting urban warfare style in an elite military special-op squad and ended up in ‘a place’ seeing (foreseeing?) how I’m going to propose to my wife. I know I’m single and far off from getting hitched, but I’ve always had a soft spot for those stories we hear about how so-and-so proposed to his lady so-and-so. The kind of story like where a young lady awaits her boyfriend’s arrival at an airport terminal just outside his gate (back in the day), and when the plane lands and the people start to appear from the jetway, she sees each one exit holding a rose in their hand. They are looking at a small picture which they’re holding with the other hand and, after scanning the crowd, they all begin to walk towards her. Each one gives her a rose and passes on without a word. Once every last person from the plane has done so, she looks towards the gate, arms overflowing with roses, to see her boyfriend, beaming at her and holding a small black box in his hand, and he asks her to marry her. ::cue tears:: Well, that’s what kinda dream it was
I too often hear about a couple pre-planning a marriage so much, that the presentation of the engagement ring is more like an expected formality rather than unanticipated popping of The Question., which, in my opinion, takes all the fun out of it. Ask first, plan later, I say. If she says no, then I hope I have a receipt. But there’s always something nice about a romantic and imaginative, yet not cheesy, way of proposing to someone.
So, how did I do it, you ask? Well, that would take all the fun out of it. Plus, what if she reads this? Then it wouldn’t be much of a surprise, now would it? So, if you or anyone you know is a 6-foot-tall Chinese woman with curly blonde hair and with one blue eye and one green eye, let me know.
Oh, and I’m back from the states safe and sound. A nice and pleasant trip back home it was. Photos to come soon.
Ok. There. Done. Out of my head. Now, if only this obnoxious jetlag will let me go back to sleep.